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The Radical Idea That People Aren’t Disposable (An Essay About Dirt, Dignity, and the Strange Notion That Helping Works)

Let me tell you something strange. Truly strange. Borderline un-American. There is a woman in Pittsburgh who looked at a pile of ruined land, a population of people society had written off, and a criminal justice system that specializes in permanent punishment—and instead of launching a podcast or running for office, she said: “What if we just… helped?” I know. Dangerous thinking. Because in this country, we love a good before-and-after story, but only if the “before” stays invisible and the “after” doesn’t ask us to change anything. We love inspiration. We hate responsibility. We love slogans. We hate systems. And above all, we love pretending that failure is always personal and success is always deserved. Which is why the story of Ilyssa Manspeizer and Landforce is so deeply unsettling. Not because it’s radical. But because it’s obvious. America’s Favorite Hobby: Throwing People Away Here’s the deal. America doesn’t rehabilitate people. It warehouses them. We lock peopl...

Congratulations, America: You Finally Discovered Negotiation

Let’s start with a miracle. No, not the kind with angels and choirs and glowing babies in hay. I’m talking about the real miracle—the kind that makes lobbyists sweat and pharmaceutical executives clutch their yachts a little tighter. America has discovered negotiation . That thing you do at a garage sale. That thing you do when buying a used car. That thing literally every other developed country has been doing with prescription drugs since disco died. And now—brace yourself—we’re doing it too. With Medicare . On purpose. For Decades, the System Worked Exactly as Designed Before anyone starts applauding Congress like a trained seal at SeaWorld , let’s be clear: the old system wasn’t broken. It was working perfectly . Just not for you. It worked for drug companies that charged whatever they felt like because they could. It worked for middlemen who skimmed quietly while calling themselves “benefit managers.” It worked for politicians who got donations in exchange for p...

LAST-MINUTE HOLIDAY TRAVEL: A LOVE LETTER TO ESCAPE, CHEAPLY

Ah yes, the holidays. That magical time of year when everyone pretends they’re relaxed while their jaw muscles grind like industrial equipment and their credit cards whimper quietly in their wallets. It’s the season of joy, togetherness, and the annual ritual of realizing—too late—that you promised to be in three places at once with people who all hate each other for different reasons. And right about now, somewhere between the twelfth replay of the same car commercial and the third argument over who forgot to buy butter, a thought creeps into your head: “What if I just… left?” Not permanently. Let’s not get dramatic. Just enough to remember what breathing feels like. This is where the last-minute holiday getaway enters the picture—not as a luxury, but as a survival strategy. THE GREAT HOLIDAY ILLUSION We’ve sold ourselves this idea that the holidays are sacred. That you must remain in place, perform the rituals, cook the food, hang the lights, and maintain the fiction that thi...

“Congratulations, You’re Not Obsolete Yet”: Older Workers Are Building New Tech Skills, Whether Tech Likes It or Not

There’s a funny thing happening in the workplace right now. And when I say “funny,” I don’t mean delightful or charming. I mean the kind of funny where you read a news headline and go, “Wait, what?” The kind of funny where you stop mid-coffee-sip because you’re suddenly convinced society put the wrong disk in and reloaded the wrong simulation. The headline is this: Older workers are building new tech skills — a lot of them — according to fresh research from LinkedIn and AARP . And all I can think is: Well, it’s about damn time somebody admitted it. Because for years, decades even, we’ve lived inside this cultural hallucination in which anyone over 50 supposedly can’t change the settings on a microwave without summoning a grandchild like a tech-support raccoon. Meanwhile those same people run payroll, manage national infrastructure, and fix crap younger workers panic over. Now that the data finally says older workers are leveling up in tech? Of course it surprises people. Peop...

Medicare Open Enrollment: The Annual Circus Where Seniors Fight for Coverage and Insurers Fight for Your Soul

Every fall, while the rest of America is apple-picking, raking leaves, or pretending pumpkin spice is a personality, a different ritual begins for 69 million people: Medicare Open Enrollment . Yes — that glorious yearly event in which the federal government drops a giant stack of plan options on your kitchen table and whispers, “Good luck, mortal.” October 15 through December 7 is the season when seniors, near-seniors, and adult children who were “just stopping by to help with the TV remote” suddenly find themselves elbow-deep in premium tables, drug formularies, and enough acronyms to qualify as a foreign language. It's an 8-week buffet of stress, paperwork, and decisions that might save you thousands of dollars — or cost you thousands if you pick wrong. No pressure. This year’s open enrollment is especially spicy, thanks to big changes heading for Medicare in 2026. So pull up a chair, pour something calming, and let’s take a joyride through everything you need to know, sprin...